How To Make A Girl Fall
In Love With You..
Let's get started. Getting a girl of your
dreams is much like getting the car of
your dream. But unlike a car which you
can always bargain for, there is nothing
like a 20 percent discount in courting the
girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a
thing to be discounted, you dearly are in
love with her and your feelings for her
can only be communicated not by the
words of the mouth, but by the words of
the heart. Getting the girl actually
depends on how big your heart is - faint
heart, never won fair lady.
The first dating idea for any man is to
make a good impression. In your doing
so, you don't have to talk, dress or do
the common things that all the Toms do
to get a decent girl's attention. Be
unique, that's all you need. Be a man of
his own style. Dress decently -
indecency can make one be mistaken
for arrogance; watch your language -
obscene language gives the impression
of immaturity, being uncultured and
cheap; be a man of good habits - don't
drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make her fall in love with you?
Take your time. Add some romance to
your dating style. When in College I had
a crush on the most beautiful lady in our
first year lot. Though all senior guys
were out to get that girl, I managed to
divert her attention from the other guys.
I wrote her three letters without
disclosing my identity and slid into her
room secretly; all I said was 'Yours
Secret Admirer.' The first letter
contained the meaning of her name, this
I got by playing around with the initials
of her name to make meaning. The
second was a funny message that could
only be read backwards and it was all
about her physique and her smartness.
In the third letter I told the girl to be
ready to receive a rose flower from her
admirer, but only if she could be kind
enough to phone him using a number
that I had included in the letter. The girl
did phone me that very night, and her
first words to me were, "Hallo Secret
Admirer." So, the story of our love affair
came to be. Later she told me that was
so creative of me, no one had
approached her in that manner. I made
her fall in love with me and made a date
in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl
you are out to get is the next important
thing. This is what I also did. You have to
understand that as a lady, she loves to
be loved, adores to be adored and needs
to be needed. This will move you closer
to the girl and you'll get to know what
she's into, what she likes and dislikes,
and what her style is. Love is built upon
friendship and it always leaves
individuals better off having known each
other should they break up. I and my
College steady were to break some time
later but to date, we are the best of
buddies. Be sure that bringing out the
selflessness friend in you will make her
create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good
friend that she can always turn to is all
that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate
to be helpful and supportive. Be that
friend who rekindles her zeal of
hardworking and restoring hope back
into her life when she looses hope. This
above all other things will make you her
daily vitamin simply because you bring
out the best in her in terms of
personality and character. In you, she'll
have found that friend whom she can
open up to, share with and advice each
other on the rights and wrongs, the dos
and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always
be there to celebrate the good times,
and to lend an ear when the girl needs
you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's
someone's friend - your friend, and let
her know that she too has touched your
life in a unique way like no one else
could. Compliment her for her company
and for being there when you needed
her, when you felt sad and all alone.
Show appreciations for the comfort the
girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your
dreams, your world, and every aspect of
your life with your girl. Always dream
with her, build with her, and always
cheer her on and encourage her. Tell
your girl how you always think about her
even when you try not to think about
her. Let the girl know that she's your
first thing in the morning and the last
thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of
her when you slipped beneath the
softness of your blanket and gave in to
the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her
go 'my my' and her heart will sing your
name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive
to keep girl's interest in you so full of
life. I remember one time I told my
girlfriend to be to imagine we are both
deaf and dump. We then sat opposite
each other on the table and started
sharing our feelings for each other using
eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be
some fun. There was also this time that
we were in the library and we decided
we are not going to speak to each other
verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper
and passed it across the table to her,
she replied and on and on we carried on
our love on paper conversation till we
almost exhausted a whole rim of paper.
At sometime, I noticed that some guys
sited with us on the table were enjoying
our ordeal than their studies. Such are
the things that made the girl embrace
my world. I remember her suggesting
that we play deaf and dump two years
after we broke up, can you imagine
that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she
least expects it. I once called some girl
that I was interested in at four o'clock in
the morning. When inquiring of what I
was doing up so early, I told her I was in
thirteenth heaven, where people think of
their loved ones when they can't sleep.
Wow! First thing early the next morning,
she was at my door with a king-sized
hug for me. No matter how many dates
you take her, don't make any elbow -
exceeding moves after any date, just
drop her home and with a friendly
handshake, wish her good night. Don't
kiss her when she expects you to. Your
respect as a gentleman will be earned
on how patient you are with her when it
comes to such matters as kissing her
and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want
her, but you can't have her just yet.
Increase your demand. Try to show her
that men are also hard to get at times.
Make her realize that when she feels a
little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a
little sick, a lot bored and very much
cold, she's actually missing vitamin you.
By this time, she'll be so much into you
and since love is truthful and is
characterized by open and honest
communication, honestly promise her
your everlasting devotion, loyalty,
respect, and your unconditional love for
a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always
be there for her, to listen and to hold her
hand, and that you'll always do your
best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her
heart; be like that gardener watching a
fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after
day admiring it, but, exercising
tremendous self-discipline, neither
feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor
testing it to see if it is ready. And then,
one day he holds out his hand and the
fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and
eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you
practice will make you more attractive
and charming. This will qualify you as
her daily vitamin and win you that heart
hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your
dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with
you, and make her feel the happiest girl
in the world!
