Premature Ejaculation – Useful Tips
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Are you sick and tired of not lasting long enough during sex? Is delaying ejaculation becoming an
arduous thing to do, one that causes you great embarrassment in front of your lover? There are
many forms of sexual dysfunction that occur amongst men, and nothing is more debilitating than
premature ejaculation. Yet the good news is also that premature ejaculation is the easiest to treat
among all male sexual problems.
Indeed, you can completely cure PE using natural, practical methods without making embarrassing
trips to the doctor. These are the key techniques and strategies:
#1 - Understanding your ejaculatory process and sexual responses
Without a proper understanding of how your body responds to sexual stimulation, you will never be
able to control how soon you ejaculate during sex. Arousal control is key to keep PE in check. And
before you can control your arousal, you have to understand how it works. In a nutshell, your body
goes through 4 key stages of response during sex. The first stage involves "excitement" when your
penis starts to fill with blood and becomes erect. The second stage occurs when your penis is fully
erect and you feel relaxed and under control. Stage 3 is when intense sensations begin to envelop
your penis and you are about to "pop". This leads into the final stage where ejaculation takes place.
The arousal and erection fade away soon after.
#2 - Developing mental control
Much of a man's inability to hold ejaculation stems from psychological or confidence-related issues.
The very thoughts that run though your mind during sex will affect your sexual endurance. Some
guys allow the sensations of intercourse to rule over their head and that is a quick and surefire way
to blow early. You must learn how to control your arousal right from the beginning. This can be
achieved by focusing NOT on intercourse but on the entire sexual experience. This is a huge
difference. To develop mental or arousal control, you need to focus on the ALL the sensations you
experience and GIVE during sex, and not just focusing on how you feel in your own nether regions.
#3 - Regaining physical control
Adding physical control to mental control will allow you to totally re-wire your ejaculatory triggers
so that you can decide when you want to ejaculate. Training your ejaculatory muscles is critical to
developing physical control. You see, your pelvic or perineal muscles control when you ejaculate.
By strengthening the proper set of muscles, you are able to keep them relaxed at all times even with
the most intense sexual stimulation.
There is no better time to start than now!
Many guys just lament that they can't last long enough, and never make the effort to address this
problem. Others resort to short-term tactics like desensitizing sprays and creams which don't
address the root causes. But if you are willing to put in the effort to understand how you body
responds and develop both mental and physical control over your ejaculatory reflexes, you will be
able to completely TRANSFORM your sex life and enjoy sex to the fullest!
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